Brother seems to refuse to grow up. PLEASE HELP! [Long, but I would appreciate advice. PLEASE]?

if it's truly survival at this point, dont spend your money on the house, it's already going away. might as well spend it on food while you're with ur bf's family. or an apartment which would cost considerably less money than anything(except utility bills) u owe at your house. so pay utilities and perhaps wait for eviction. well, that's what i'd do to postpone rent as much as possible.. good luck. hope it turns out well for u.